I am god w
freinds i have visited one day golden temple and i am hindu,what i see there that a beggar,washer man,person with leprasy,poor,rich,sikhs of high status all are taking lunch together,and i started crying after watching that love and brother hood inside me.
GURUNANAK the FOUNDER OF SIKHISM remove evils of caste system from society and his followers take no difference between rich and poor,high caste and lower caste,I FIND SIKHISM AS ONLY RELIGION WHICH PROMOTE TRUE BROTHER HOOD.
1. christanity
there is racisam between black and whites,christain missonaries has killed millions of innocent humans in order to convert them into christanity,black people are exploited by whites and there is racisam.
2 ISLAM
in 2003 thousands of black muslims are murdered by higher caste muslims,in islam there is racisam,saddam husain murdered 4000 kurds tribe people.
I AM NOT AGAINST THESE RELIGIONS,THERE FOUNDERS ARE GREAT BUT FOLLWERS PROVE TO BE STUPID,JESUS,MUHDMMAD ALL ARE GREAT.
3. my religion HINDUISM
in hinduism lower caste are being exploited from ages by brahaman,there is explotation of lower caste and untouchables.there is not brother hood at all.
IT IS SIKHISM WHERE THERE IS NO RACISAM AT ALL,AND FOLLWERS OF SIKHISM FOLLOW THE TEACHINGS OF GURUNANAK.
I THOUGHT SIKHISM IS BEST RELIGION,WHAT YOU THOUGHT dont be partial towards your own religion,i am hindhu and i thought it is sikhism.
Answer
How does one decide upon good or bad, best or worst?
1. It could be, that one lacks something in him/her which is found outside oneself.
2. The âbestâ is beneficial to oneself/others irrespective of caste, creed, colour, culture age & gender .
3. This benefit leads to greater inner satisfaction of oneself/others, & sense of security within/without for oneself/others.
4. This âbestâ is always positive in its outcome though the source may not be so. (e.g. One learns many good lessons from negative experiences & matures into a wise person).
Religion (any) has always taught good to all its adherents. But it needs to be reinterpreted according to the changing times/cultures/peoples/situations etc in view of making them more beneficial to its adherent - individual & the community as well as others- non-adherents. This way religion needs to be made meaningful for the present time and people living in the present.
It challenges its followers to live in the present. But the followers carry that religion in the 'Past or Futuristic bags'. That becomes unbearable to everyone including the non-followers.
Caste system in Hinduism (approved by the Scriptures-Religion) might have had social necessity in the Vedic or later periods for smooth functioning (sociologically). But today it is not needed. It excludes other caste groups and isolates its own members. Thus fosters suspicion against the excluded & instills insecurity in both the groups. That is why there is much violence between âhighâ & âlowâ castes in India.
When a particular thing stops providing security one self, to the people (within/without), to an individual & to the human society at large, and hinders enrichment of human lives irrespective of differences among humans (gender/colour/racial/cultural etc.), that thing becomes a liability.
It needs to be revaluated ruthlessly.
Has the Caste System become one such element in Hindu Community? Does one feel ashamed of it in the face of violence and suffering it causes? Is one speechless when someone asks shameful questions about Caste System in Hinduism? Does one really want to do something about it?
If yes, then it needs to be abolished. First & foremost by the State.
The State has to fully implement this supported by strong legal hands. Even today one needs to announce one's caste on admission-forms and other formal documents in educational as well as other institutes (that is likely to officially perpetuate the Caste System from generation to generation).
The individuals & groups who have practiced such system in their personal lives so far also need to consciously and persistently break away from it. irrespective of the benefits they may have recieved in the past.
The Scriptures need to be read anew and re-interpreted in the context of the present milieu. The religions, this way, becomes evergreen and lofty.
That means it depends on us to make any religion best or worst.
If a Hindu dislikes his own religion due to its Caste System and other practices then he/she should stop practicing those things in his/her own life. Start developing true respect for all humans including the so called low caste This way one will not feel bad (guilty) about oneself or one's own religion.
Of course, beneficiaries of Caste System will disagree with all the above.
Christian religion affirms God as the Father (Creator) of the Universe. God created Adam & Eve in His own likeness and image. From these first parents, proceeded forth all the humanity. That resulted in the universal brother-sisterhood of all the human beings.
Islam too preaches brotherhood though with a difference. (http://www.famsy.com/salam/Brotherhood0404.htm )
(http://www.themodernreligion.com/basic/charac/essay_brotherhood.htm)
Practicing along these lines will surely enrich all religions. All of them will become the best.
Let us do it!
How does one decide upon good or bad, best or worst?
1. It could be, that one lacks something in him/her which is found outside oneself.
2. The âbestâ is beneficial to oneself/others irrespective of caste, creed, colour, culture age & gender .
3. This benefit leads to greater inner satisfaction of oneself/others, & sense of security within/without for oneself/others.
4. This âbestâ is always positive in its outcome though the source may not be so. (e.g. One learns many good lessons from negative experiences & matures into a wise person).
Religion (any) has always taught good to all its adherents. But it needs to be reinterpreted according to the changing times/cultures/peoples/situations etc in view of making them more beneficial to its adherent - individual & the community as well as others- non-adherents. This way religion needs to be made meaningful for the present time and people living in the present.
It challenges its followers to live in the present. But the followers carry that religion in the 'Past or Futuristic bags'. That becomes unbearable to everyone including the non-followers.
Caste system in Hinduism (approved by the Scriptures-Religion) might have had social necessity in the Vedic or later periods for smooth functioning (sociologically). But today it is not needed. It excludes other caste groups and isolates its own members. Thus fosters suspicion against the excluded & instills insecurity in both the groups. That is why there is much violence between âhighâ & âlowâ castes in India.
When a particular thing stops providing security one self, to the people (within/without), to an individual & to the human society at large, and hinders enrichment of human lives irrespective of differences among humans (gender/colour/racial/cultural etc.), that thing becomes a liability.
It needs to be revaluated ruthlessly.
Has the Caste System become one such element in Hindu Community? Does one feel ashamed of it in the face of violence and suffering it causes? Is one speechless when someone asks shameful questions about Caste System in Hinduism? Does one really want to do something about it?
If yes, then it needs to be abolished. First & foremost by the State.
The State has to fully implement this supported by strong legal hands. Even today one needs to announce one's caste on admission-forms and other formal documents in educational as well as other institutes (that is likely to officially perpetuate the Caste System from generation to generation).
The individuals & groups who have practiced such system in their personal lives so far also need to consciously and persistently break away from it. irrespective of the benefits they may have recieved in the past.
The Scriptures need to be read anew and re-interpreted in the context of the present milieu. The religions, this way, becomes evergreen and lofty.
That means it depends on us to make any religion best or worst.
If a Hindu dislikes his own religion due to its Caste System and other practices then he/she should stop practicing those things in his/her own life. Start developing true respect for all humans including the so called low caste This way one will not feel bad (guilty) about oneself or one's own religion.
Of course, beneficiaries of Caste System will disagree with all the above.
Christian religion affirms God as the Father (Creator) of the Universe. God created Adam & Eve in His own likeness and image. From these first parents, proceeded forth all the humanity. That resulted in the universal brother-sisterhood of all the human beings.
Islam too preaches brotherhood though with a difference. (http://www.famsy.com/salam/Brotherhood0404.htm )
(http://www.themodernreligion.com/basic/charac/essay_brotherhood.htm)
Practicing along these lines will surely enrich all religions. All of them will become the best.
Let us do it!
Best mommy jokes or mommy saying?
Pisces
How it felt to give birth
After going through Lamaze, Leboyer, and La Leche classes with his expectant wife, the proud new father remained by her bedside throughout the labor delivery and wanting to be as sympathetic as possible, he took his wife's hand afterward and said emotionally. "Tell, me how it was, darling, how it actually felt to give birth."
"OK, honey," his wife replied. "Smile as hard as you can."
Beaming down at his wife and smile, the man followed her instsuctions. "That's not hard."
She continued, "Now stick a finger in each corner of you mouth." He obeyed, smiling broadly. "Now stretch your lips as far as they'll go," she went on.
"Still not to tough." he remarked.
"Right." she snapped. "Now pull them over your head."
1. When I forget to go to the grocery store, I will not boil the macaroni necklaces my children made for me in preschool.
2. When I hear one of my children wake in the middle of the night, I will run upstairs to supervise before he relieves himself in the sink and then creeps into the bathtub to return to sleep.
3. I will pack the kids' lunch boxes the night before so I don't throw in a slab of frozen lasagna as they're running for the bus. "It'll defrost by lunch. If not, you can suck it like an ice pop."
4. I will resist the urge to explain to strangers why my son is wearing winter boots, a bathing suit bottom, and an inside-out and backward pajama top. I will be grateful that he is able to dress himself.
5. I will not tell my children that the Play-Doh dried up just because I don't feel like cleaning up after they use it, even though I know it means I'll spend the evening harvesting the colored stuff from the carpet fibers, chair cushions and the dog's fur.
6. I will always protect the rights of my children, especially their right to remain silent.
7. I will learn to accept the outbursts and tantrums as a part of life. After all, I promised to love my husband for better or worse.
8. When my husband and I go to a restaurant without the kids, I will not roll up his sleeves or move the knives from his reach. I will not accompany him to the bathroom and remind him to wash his hands with soap. If my husband wants dessert at the end of the meal, I will not tell him it depends on his behavior.
9. When I'm tired of hearing "mommieeeeee!" a thousand times each day, I will resist changing my name to "Please pass the spinach" or "TV is boring, I'd rather read."
10. I will develop an ability to have a conversation with an adult that doesn't revolve around labor pains or children's toilet habits. I will feel comfortable in the silence that ensues when neither of us can think of any other topic to discuss or remember we can always discuss the weather.
11. I will be more flexible about children's nutritional requirements by counting the ketchup and green crayon as vegetables.
12. When my children beg for a pet, I will buy them each a hutch for the dust bunnies that have multiplied under their beds. I will let them name each dust bunny.
13. I will count how often I repeat the phrase "You'd better listen because I will not repeat myself", until my children actually notice that I have spoken. I will not raise my voice until I have said it at least that many times.
14. When my kids are older (at least 50), I will explain why they never have any chocolate candy left after Mommy and Daddy "check" their Halloween bags.
15. I will be a good, fair and loving parent to my children. I will provide them with enriching experiences and opportunities. I will give them a solid foundation on which to build a useful life. After all, they may eventually be responsible for choosing a nursing home for me to live out my final days
Answer
A little "birdy" told me!
Am I talking to a brick wall?
Are you deaf or something?
Are you lying to me?
As long as you live under my roof, you'll do as I say.
Beds are NOT made for jumping on.
Close the door! You don't live in a barn.
Do as I say, not as I do.
Don't make me get up!
Don't sit too close to the television, it'll ruin your eyes.
Don't talk with your mouth full!
Don't walk away when I'm talking to you!
Eat your vegetables, they're good for you.
Enough is enough!
Go play outside! It's a beautiful day!
How do you know you don't like it if you haven't tasted it?
I didn't ask who put it there, I said "Pick it up!"
I don't care what "everyone" is doing. I care what YOU are doing!
I hope someday you have children just like you.
If God had wanted you to have holes in your ears (eyebrows, tongue, etc.) He would have put them there!
If it were a snake, it would have bitten you.
If you stick your tongue out again it will fall off.
I'm doing this for your own good.
I'm not going to ask you again.
Isn't it past your bedtime?
It's not that I don't trust you, it's that I don't trust everyone else.
Life isn't fair.
Look at me when I'm talking to you.
No child of MINE would do something like that.
Say that again and I'll wash your mouth out with soap.
Shut the door! I'm not heating (air conditioning) the entire neighborhood!
This hurts me more than it hurts you.
Turn that racket (music) down
What did I say the FIRST time?
What if everyone jumped off a cliff? Would you do it, too?
What part of NO don't you understand?
When I was a little girl...
When I was your age, I had to walk ten miles through the snow, uphill, by myself, to go to school.
When you have your own house then you can make the rules!
Who died and left you boss?
You can't start the day on an empty stomach.
You don't always get what you want. It's a hard lesson, but you might as well learn it now.
You have an answer for everything, don't you?
You kids are trying to drive me crazy!
You won't be happy until you break that, will you?
You'll understand when you're older.
Always wear clean underwear in case you get in an accident.
Answer me when I ask you a question!
Be good.
Don't ask me WHY. The answer is NO.
Don't cross your eyes or they'll freeze that way.
Don't make me come in there!
Go ask your father.
Go to your room and think about what you did!
How can you have nothing to wear? Your closet is FULL of clothes!
How many times do I have to tell you?
I don't care who started it, I said stop!
I don't know is NOT an answer.
I would have never talked to MY mother like that!
If I want your opinion I'll ask for it!
If I've told you once ... I've told you a thousand times.
If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
If you don't clean your plate, you won't get any dessert.
I'll treat you like an adult when you start acting like one.
I'm going to give you until the count of three...
It's no use crying over spilt milk.
I've had it up to here with you.
Leave your sister (brother) alone!
Never try on anyone else's glasses or you'll go blind.
Now, say you're sorry...and MEAN it!
Someday your face will freeze like that
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Think of those poor starving children in India... (or China, or Africa.)
Were you born in a barn? Close the door -- and DON'T slam it!
When I was your age...
When you have kids of your own you'll understand.
Why? Because I SAID so, that's why!
You are getting on my last nerve.
You can't judge a book by its cover.
You had better wipe that smile off your face before I do it for you.
You just ate an hour ago!
You WILL eat it, and you WILL like it!
You'd forget your head if it wasn't attached to your shoulders!
You will ALWAYS be my baby.
You're going to put your eye out with that thing!
Your father is going to hear about this when HE gets home!
You're the oldest. You should know better.
All the things our mothers said, I use some to....
A little "birdy" told me!
Am I talking to a brick wall?
Are you deaf or something?
Are you lying to me?
As long as you live under my roof, you'll do as I say.
Beds are NOT made for jumping on.
Close the door! You don't live in a barn.
Do as I say, not as I do.
Don't make me get up!
Don't sit too close to the television, it'll ruin your eyes.
Don't talk with your mouth full!
Don't walk away when I'm talking to you!
Eat your vegetables, they're good for you.
Enough is enough!
Go play outside! It's a beautiful day!
How do you know you don't like it if you haven't tasted it?
I didn't ask who put it there, I said "Pick it up!"
I don't care what "everyone" is doing. I care what YOU are doing!
I hope someday you have children just like you.
If God had wanted you to have holes in your ears (eyebrows, tongue, etc.) He would have put them there!
If it were a snake, it would have bitten you.
If you stick your tongue out again it will fall off.
I'm doing this for your own good.
I'm not going to ask you again.
Isn't it past your bedtime?
It's not that I don't trust you, it's that I don't trust everyone else.
Life isn't fair.
Look at me when I'm talking to you.
No child of MINE would do something like that.
Say that again and I'll wash your mouth out with soap.
Shut the door! I'm not heating (air conditioning) the entire neighborhood!
This hurts me more than it hurts you.
Turn that racket (music) down
What did I say the FIRST time?
What if everyone jumped off a cliff? Would you do it, too?
What part of NO don't you understand?
When I was a little girl...
When I was your age, I had to walk ten miles through the snow, uphill, by myself, to go to school.
When you have your own house then you can make the rules!
Who died and left you boss?
You can't start the day on an empty stomach.
You don't always get what you want. It's a hard lesson, but you might as well learn it now.
You have an answer for everything, don't you?
You kids are trying to drive me crazy!
You won't be happy until you break that, will you?
You'll understand when you're older.
Always wear clean underwear in case you get in an accident.
Answer me when I ask you a question!
Be good.
Don't ask me WHY. The answer is NO.
Don't cross your eyes or they'll freeze that way.
Don't make me come in there!
Go ask your father.
Go to your room and think about what you did!
How can you have nothing to wear? Your closet is FULL of clothes!
How many times do I have to tell you?
I don't care who started it, I said stop!
I don't know is NOT an answer.
I would have never talked to MY mother like that!
If I want your opinion I'll ask for it!
If I've told you once ... I've told you a thousand times.
If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
If you don't clean your plate, you won't get any dessert.
I'll treat you like an adult when you start acting like one.
I'm going to give you until the count of three...
It's no use crying over spilt milk.
I've had it up to here with you.
Leave your sister (brother) alone!
Never try on anyone else's glasses or you'll go blind.
Now, say you're sorry...and MEAN it!
Someday your face will freeze like that
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Think of those poor starving children in India... (or China, or Africa.)
Were you born in a barn? Close the door -- and DON'T slam it!
When I was your age...
When you have kids of your own you'll understand.
Why? Because I SAID so, that's why!
You are getting on my last nerve.
You can't judge a book by its cover.
You had better wipe that smile off your face before I do it for you.
You just ate an hour ago!
You WILL eat it, and you WILL like it!
You'd forget your head if it wasn't attached to your shoulders!
You will ALWAYS be my baby.
You're going to put your eye out with that thing!
Your father is going to hear about this when HE gets home!
You're the oldest. You should know better.
All the things our mothers said, I use some to....
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